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November 1999 Late
1997: This year I "read" a truly amazing book.
I don't know that it changed my life at all, but it amazed me
just how good a novel can be. The book was Anna Karenina,
by Leo Tolstoy. "Read" is in quotes because I listened
to it on tape as I drove around. It is a really long book, but
it paints a family of people with a realism I've seldom experience with real people. That sounds funny,
but in the book you can hear their thoughts, as well as see them
from the other characters' viewpoints. With real people, you
only get the thoughts they want you to know about and your own
viewpoint, usually.
Synchronicity did play into the book for me. Last year I wrote
about my "divorce" from my dissertation, as well as
several other divorce-like situations. Anna Karenina,
a segment of James Joyce's Dubliners, and some ongoing
conversation with a friend who was on the teetering on the brink
of divorce revisited this whole area. I say she was on the brink.
Specifically, I felt like I was in a position to give a little
tug or a little push and make a difference on which way she choose.
There was some interesting similarity between the stories.
Anna left her husband for a man she loved. Due to the guilt she
felt, she eventually threw herself under a train to her death.
In the story from Dubliners, a lady was on the edge of
having an affair with a man who, realizing what was happening,
fled. She became an alcoholic, and died when she was hit by a
train while staggering back to her loveless home. I wonder if
Joyce was thinking about Anna Karenina when he wrote that
story. Anyhow, this seemed to cover the two options the "other
man" had and in both cases the woman ended up railroad-kill.
I told my friend to watch out for train crossing. As far as I
know, she has avoided both trains and affairs (at least her own),
but unfortunately her divorce is going through soon.
Two more books I've gotten a lot of discussion from were Men
are From Mars, Women are From Venus, and one of the sequels,
Mars and Venus on a Date, both by Dr. John Gray. It suggests
men and women are different. Great premise for a best-seller,
eh?
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